*信心*

突然觉得我应该放慢脚步…去感受身边的一切人与事…虽然知道事情发生得太快未必是一件不好的事…
但是心里中欠缺了一份安全感…需要的是一点时间去重建我对人的信心…..

12 Responses to “*信心*”

  1. crystal Says:

    事情发生得太快是否是一件好事呢?这问题也一直在我脑海里打转着…的确发生太快的事缺少了份安全感,但…事情要发生的话怎样都阻挡不了,当时的心情并不是当事者所能控制的…很自然地就这样发生了。只能说一句>注定吧!!!竟然都已发生了,为何还要那么犹豫呢?这不像是我认识的你!嘻!或者先尝试去接受,了解这件事的经历,再看看该如何办吧!你需要时间去重建对人的信心…但。。。不好用太长的时间哦!有些东西失去了就无法换回了!

  2. Mei Zhen Says:

    why u so -ve?u should try before decide,then only u ll know whether is suitable4u,if u dont even feel like2try,u wont know the result for whole life.not everything so bad in this world,i ll support u..GO GO GO

  3. crystal Says:

    But if after try, thts still got U-Turn, mei zhen? i dont know, coz i also same experience & thinking with jey previously…after try, i meet many many obstancles…the feeling, sthing like 矛盾…when we never touch it, we hope to get it; but after we got it, many problems made us feel& ask ourself:”whether it’s a true decision?” …… jey, u need time to build confidence on others; But for me, i need time& looking for ways to build confidence on myself…

  4. jey Says:

    after try then get the same result then how…for what i’m thinking now…guys are almost same la…

    actually , is it “not -secure” same with ” not confidence”?

  5. crystal Says:

    ya, im agree tht all guys are almost same…but be remember, jey > u never never know the answer before u try for it…unless u just guess for it, but u should know tht, guess is not the accurate result…even try, u also need to know how to protect yourself…BUT, hopefully you will meet so much obstract as i meet…

  6. crystal Says:

    sorry, wrong word for the above comment…..BUT, hopefully u will not meet so much obstract as i meet……this 1 is correction..hehe;)

  7. weekang Says:

    乌龟赛跑赢兔子的原因就是有不放弃的信心吧?

  8. crystal Says:

    还记得你在博客里张贴的歌词<遇上爱>吗?参考下朋友们给你的评语吧!我们会支持你的!

  9. Mei ling Says:

    安全感~是别人给你的
    对人的信心~是你自己给他的
    So, 安全感+信心 = 你们的相处之道。
    尝试接受与他相处,能从中重拾回对别人的信心,也能去发掘他的安全感,何乐而不为呢?
    人,应该屡次尝试,才能找到最好的。
    所谓有好过没有嘛,有的尝试,你不要,可能以后就会后悔,遗憾。
    所以亮怡啊!亮怡啊!别放气尝试,试过了,不能,也无所谓啊。。。
    因为心无遗憾才是最好的结果。。。

  10. Mei Zhen Says:

    i ask u2try some1u like, not try on those guy u hate!!actually is very hard2meet a guy that we have feeling on him so when u have this special feeling, i suggest u2try.Crystal, thats always have a U-TURN in our “road”, maybe u ll reach the destination a bit late only..As mei ling said, nevermind if fail at least u have try it.If u continue have unsafety feeling u won’t step out from your world, u must try 1st step = believe+confident2relationship, then ur “GREY WORLD” ll change2 COLOURFUL WORLD..

  11. Chye Woon Says:

    hi dear …. confidence is wat he make u feel … luv is wat he make u feel …. vice versa ….

    as long as u think is worthy .. go ahead ….

  12. Andy Says:

    wah lau de.. ur fren all also support U. i am one of them. hehe. GOGOGO i am sure he will give u that u nv have it b4. remember wat mei zhen said “COLORFUL WORLD”.

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